Sunday, August 22, 2010

Until We Meet Again.....


Merin, Mike, and baby Ysa


Mike and Merin


Merin and her mom Cheri


Merin and her older sister Eden


You are are both so loved and will be sorely missed


The last few days are a complete fog. I will have literal seconds when I'm doing something and I forget, then like a blow to the stomach, I am reminded that my sweet cousin Merin and her husband Mike are no longer here.


Friday night was a dark night for our family. My dad called around 10 o'clock and told me that Merin and Mike were involved in a fatal car accident on the way home from a wedding that the whole family had attended. He told me that Merin and Mike were pronounced dead upon arrival of the paramedics, and that their sweet baby 'Ysa' (7 weeks old) survived the crash. The sadness and emptiness is overwhelming.

Merin was a piece of heaven on this earth. Anyone who had the privilege of spending time with her, no doubt felt of her greatness. I can't picture her in my mind's eye without a smile. She never demanded center stage, yet ironically had it in many aspects of her life namely ballet. She was an accomplished ballerina who has spent time dancing in many areas of the world and has won numerous awards for her unique abilities. She danced at all of my married siblings weddings. Watching her dance was a perfect expression of who Merin is. Merin is grace, poise, polish, beauty in and out, softness, loveliness, and devotion.
She has left a beautiful legacy. One her daughter will be so proud of. Baby Ysa will spend her life on this earth in the arms of Merin's amazing sister Eden along with her husband Daylan and their children Deacon and Aubrie. This is certainly not the way I saw Merin's future unfold, but it is times like these that I am so grateful for the knowledge of our Savior in who has born all of our sorrows and knows us each by name. He knows Merin and Mike and they now will rest in his care......until we meet again.
I love you Merin
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14 comments:

Suzy Hicks said...

Jill, this is so sweet and true. They will be so missed.

Denise said...

This brought me to tears, Jill. I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful husband and wife! Can I do anything for you? Thoughts and prayers to you and your family! Love you!

Jenny Roberts said...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The gospel brings peace at times like this. Please let me know if there's anything you need.

TJ Eich said...

Oh JIll, I'm so sorry! You'll be in our thoughts and prayers. mUch love!

Brea said...

Jill, you are so good with words. I have chills and tears after reading your post...life is so precious! May peace and comfort be with you and your family! Love you girl!! :)

Cheri said...

Thanks Jill. It's so lovely.

Laura said...

Jill... I am crying my head off... I am SO sorry for your family! How wonderful she was so close to her sister and that the baby will have all the love and care she will ever need. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all!!

Megan said...

Thanks for expressing the love we all feel for Merin!

Anna said...

What a wonderful tribute Jill! They were an amazing couple and will be missed. Love you guys!

Karin said...

I am reading your blog and sobbing. I can't imagine what your family is going through and I pray you all feel comforted and peace at this sad time. They sound like amazing people and I'm sure they will be greatly missed! Hang in there!

Tiffany said...

I'm balling like a baby, Jill!! I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin and her husband! I currently have a cousin in a coma (we will have to talk, I've been thinking I need to call and tell you all about this one), for almost three weeks now, and so this has really hit my heart strings!! Your family is in my prayers. love you!

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, Jill. Please let me know if there is anything that we can do for you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers!

laurak said...

I am so sorry for your whole family. I am glad that Ysa will have her Aunt and family to love and raise her. Thank you for reminding us how precious life is.

nielsen said...

Jill, I am so sorry for your loss! I was helping my mom with her new computer and was giving her some family blog addresses. I have not posted on mine for a while, but thought I would check in on some friends while I was waiting, and read your post. You have always been beautifully spoken, and I know you loved her very much from your words. Just today in church meetings, the Bishop was talking about how short life can be. This is such a reminder. Please know I am thinking of you and your extended family. Love Lori and all the Nielsen family.